Sure, no worries. This time it's a two part setup. 'high' and 'low' currents.
The relay is preferred cuz it keeps the 'high' current out of the interier of the vehicle, and it doesn't rub against the firewall potentially causing problems down the road. Only the 'low' current trigger wire goes through the firewall.
First up the high current side.
The relay kit will have numbers printed on the bottom of the relay, these numbers are universal to all 12v auto relays.
You will want to run a wire from the 30amp Aux post of your choice to the 20amp circuit breaker.
Then run a wire from the circuit breaker to terminal #30 on the relay.
Then run a wire from terminal #87 to the back of the truck outside the cabin. Possibly following a brake line? e-brake cable? along the frame?
This was the easy part.
Second part, the low current side.
I couldn't find a diagram, but in the convienence center located uder the drivers side dash(where the chime module is) you should be able to find a IGN terminal. I did, but can't remember which one it is. (Using the IGN terminal will let the lights shut off when the truck is not running, that way the batt won't drain, AND it's already fused.)
Run a wire from this IGN terminal to the switch located anywhere in your dash.
Then run a wire from the switch out the firewall to under the hood, to the relay terminal #86.
Then run a wire from relay terminal #85 to ground.
That's it. Sounds complicated, but it's easy, just time consuming - crimping on those stupid terminal ends, etc...