1. it seems like no matter the shock diameter...you desire to USE this rig will be beyond any shock capability with a remote resi, unless going to a 3" or larger ( then weight may even over come the 3" resi)
now, most large retail name lifts will only increase height, not travel...Carli being about the only exception. ( i say that as Camburg, Icon, and others are more limited as costs are far higher ( quality usually is too, but most wont USE the rig)
as stated, the 4 and 6" KITS are generally the same hard parts, and in this case...the 4" probably offers better ride and it KEEPS factory angles and spacing to the factory bump stops. most GM vehicle suffer from levels as the suspension is right at the stop interface.
do i think your set up is out of this world, NO, but it may need some fab work on your end to get what you want.
in my case, i want 4" for simple appearance, but i want it to work ! i will probably fab my own rear arms and T-bar. i would also prefer a replacement rear coil with internal airbag when needed. front will be standard 4" hard drop...mine is simply a driver but i dont like having issues.
my 05, 08 and 02 Ram 2500's have all benefited from either Carli or Thuren lifts...!!!!