Ok, so i decided to go ahead and take the heads off since i was thinking of all the "guesstimation" that would have to be done. ive been slowly been chopping away at it after getting off work. i have so far gotten the intake off, unbolted the headers, and im currently disconnecting the exhaust. i so happened to disconnect the part that has the flex pipe and a large glob of milky oil landed on my arm.....so im guessing that the end culprit is a head gasket maybe im not sure. i will continue to work at taking the heads off i will post pictures as i go.