The bolts and crush washers were straight from GM.
Banjo bolt: PN #11569669
Banjo bolt washer: PN #21012386
I hear you about the emergency braking. That's why I took it out yesterday after I was done, and gradually braked, until I was confident enough. I then took it to 70+ MPH and stomped on the brake to bring it down to zero. I did this about 7-8 times. I've never felt my truck ever stop better; it almost stops like a small car would. I actually have to be more judicious now compared to before with brake usage, because a light tap is all that's needed; pushing it too hard is enough to slow down the truck really fast (i.e. the brakes are way more responsive now).