@Larryjb -- did yours look like this?
Hmm, look like what? Do you mean your previous picture from May 10?
The only way I was able to conclude that my rear main was leaking was to replace the oil pan gasket (which I knew was leaking) by the book. I did everything by the book: specified RTV at the corners, torqued everything exactly as instructed, etc. I cleaned the gasket surfaces very carefully so as to not score the mating surface. I had found a ridge which I smoothed off, and added a dab of RTV to.
When I still had a leak, I figured it had to be the rear main. Unless you have a really good boroscope, there is no way you can see well enough behind the flexplate. You won't be able to properly see all the rear main cover and rear main. Once I got my tranny out, I could clearly see where things had been leaking, and the worst leaking was in fact the rear cover.
If you leak is worse after doing the oil pan, you may want to redo it making sure everything is done by the book. Somewhere I do have a thread on this, but I can't remember if it was with my rear main oil seal thread or not.
Good luck!