Tried the key on x2 reset tip tonight - no good. Darn I was really hoping it would be something simple like that.
My rear defrost has not worked since I bought the rig. When I bought it the P/S coiled wire was detached. I glued it on with the conductive glue kit available online - I thought I was getting conductivity to the grid, but I recall this winter it seemed like it was still not working. It's on my list to do some more troubleshooting. But it's never worked and remote start did when I first bought the rig. It's possible it could be the back glass, but there's a DIC message that definitely lets me know if it's not latched.
I thought I found all the remote start menus - there was the one that said I was getting an ECM abort, but I never found a menu item that said why it was aborting. I was just looking at my phone and it looks like I erased the screen shots I took, so maybe I'll try it again.
Could R/S not working have anything to do with the backup sensor system? My system is working (mostly) normally now, but I've had some troubles with it in the past. I thought the issue was with the module so I replaced that with a used one. When I realized that the module was not the problem, I went back to my original module, because with that module you get an error if it doesn't match the VIN. So no issue, but possibly some residual effects from doing that swap? And I replaced two of the original sensors with used OEMs from eBay. System works great now, but it seems overly sensitive, getting triggered from the side of my garage door opening when I back out. And sometimes when I first key on it will tell me the system is off when it wasn't off last time I drove it. Just for a second though, once I put it in reverse it always works fine.