money wise.. spend it on the nice fog lights, they are low enough not to blind people and still light the way nicely. Diode Dynamics ones
the big deal is a sharp cut off. as long as you have a clean sharp cut off and keep that below on come traffic eyes you're good. problem is you can't get that from led's in the stock reflector. you can buy very expensive ones that have the light output as close as possible to where the bulb will put it. but even then if you had a normal bulb that was 4 times brighter than stock it would still glare at people. but those led's are 200$ and up for a set. no one is willing to pay that.
you need a aftermarket projector build and aimed correctly. it's not cheap, look at searches here and you'll see 1200-1600$ spent on light mods.
I was into my kit 900$ something before I even bought the truck, and then spent another 150$ or so on the bi-led foglight projectors. and even then if you live in a hilly area, going up hill while a car crests the top, he's going to get blinded by anything.
I don't even know what I have in my c6 headlight. I had to replace the lenses in those as well at 200$ each. on top of 6 sets of projectors. 2 lo, 2hi and 2 fogs, plus the install kit. I didn't fab those, they made a nice drop in plate that used the factory adjusters still.
pick your poison at this point. just make sure you don't look into the oncoming annoying lights, look to the side of the road. and keep your dash lights on the lowest settings at night. they ****** your night vision. I've had more than one person tell me how bad the lights in their car were till I convinced them to turn the dash lights down and then amazedly they can actually see past the inside of their car haha.