Congrats bud. Whic video method did you follow? The 2nd video method seemed like to much work if your not doing anything with the front diff
I assume you are talking about the oil pan gasket. I can't tell you what its like to drop the oil pan without the front diff out because i took my diff out first.
But, there is a video that shows its possible so it must be. one thing i will say though, you will have to find a way to keep the gasket from getting damaged or knocked around as you wrestle with it up to mount it. I had the diff out and i had to be quite careful as there are a few sets of wires that will knock it around and if they are dirty, they will put sand/grit on the gasket surface which will mean you'll be doing it again soon.
the factory rivits the gasket TO THE PAN first, then they install the pain onto the crank case. its done to hole it in place while the tech wrestles it into place. because i had awesome access, i just held mine in place with my hand as i put it up. i had drill loaded with teh first nut to hold it in place. i just looked up and made sure that the gasket was aligned with the bolt holes before snugging anything and used my finger to adjust the gasket alignment. it was really easy.
but, with the diff in, i would rivet it using the riviet holes. note that the felpro rivet holes ....there were two....but one was mal-aligned and wouldn't have worked. i didn't use them anyway.
my biggest recommendation, is degrease and scrub any of the crap off the engine and the wire looms that you will be bumping into while putting the pan up. that should decrease any chances of getting grit between the gasket and the mounting surface.
sorry for verbose reply. hope it helps. i do have many pictures i'll try to upload them.