Again, which is signal wire to relay from drivers switch? You will want to remove relay and test pins. Meter on Ohms, door switch out, Connector pin to relay pin. Avoid feeding BCM 12v Direct, may let smoke out.
Simplify it in your brain, if lock actuator has power at door from switch, where is it coming from? Locate that relay. Then you know its the other one.
Simplify it in your brain, if lock actuator has power at door from switch, where is it coming from? Locate that relay. Then you know its the other one.