Ok. So this is what I found out today. The whistle only happens when the temperature control is set all the way cold. As soon as I get 4 "clicks" warmer, the whistle goes away. Does not fade out, it just stops.
Happens with the fan on or off. The a/c doesn't matter - on or off it whistles.
Until I go warmer, then it stops. I turn it back cold and the whistle starts again.
Tried every combination of idle, moving, a/c on or off, vent, feet, defrost. It blows hot and cold as appropriate. It just whistles when temperature is set to cold
The pic is the point where the whistling stops.