Mine didn't shudder like yours, but I disabled it because of oil consumption issues. After doing that and a few other minor things, my oil consumption has stopped. I also got much better throttle response and improved engine braking. To summarize what I did:
- Range AFM delete stopped the 4cyl mode, probably the cheapest way to do this at around $200.
http://www.autoanything.com/performance-chips/range-active-fuel-management-disable-device
- Techron & Lucas Upper Cylinder Lubricant (use your favorite) in a few gas tanks to help clean the valves and cylinders
- AutoRx (use your favorite) in the oil for one cycle to break down sludge and try to free up the rings
- added a catch can for excess oil spray and vapors
It took about 5,500 miles of driving for everything to right itself, but now I am 1,000 miles into this oil change with no oil consumption. Obviously, ymmv.
For more details, see the thread I had on the subject ...
http://www.tahoeyukonforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=64622
My recommendation is the same as what I did, but at a minimum, go the Range Delete route. This will solve your shuddering issue and get you headed down the right path to resolving your oil consumption issues.
PS: I thought it was funny you mentioned carrying around oil. In my other link I have a short video and one of the things you'll see in there is that I used to carry extra oil in the center console ... lol!
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Here is another thread on the topic, and no, you are not alone on this!
http://www.tahoeyukonforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=64560