That is how one of the Jeep forums was for me. I left that forum after I sold the Jeep and bought my Tahoe.
There were a good number of helpful people. But... There were a few really bitter and angry people that had nothing positive or nice to contribute, let alone be helpful. Just waiting to pounce on anything people posted. No matter what was said, they had to find a way to make it an argument. Toxic is how I would describe it most of the time.
From what I have seen here at TYF, you would have to work really hard to get members mad at you. Even when someone is being a Debbie Downer, it seems folks here do an incredible job of maintaining a high level of calm and respect.
This generation of Tahoe/Yukon/Esky owners really do a great job on being respectful and helpful!
Without knowing demographics for the members here, I hate to say it, but... Maybe we are just a little older and mature about things. If not older, we are at least mature enough to know life is too short for petty BS.