That makes sense, good to know, sadly to properly break them in that means you have to drive in 4
Honestly I'm always amazed those spider gears don't grenade doing what they're doing. Seems like they should blow right the **** up, especially without the slash lubrication of the ring gear turning. Wonder if the diff is designed so that they're always submerged on oil?
I've never dug into an IFS unit, waiting for mine to blow to get a shot. Although from replacing the seal in both sides, it seems to me that the passenger side is never engaging the spider gears. I think its the driver side stubby axle that does engage them, as it seems to be directly connected to the unit, unlike the other side which is engaged by a coupler when commanded by the actuator, so for the most part they just spin with no real torque while not in use. The spider gears in solid/ifs axles are submerged in oil by default, so unless as mentioned above running low on oil, they hardly see wear while not in use.
As far as the noise its probably the installers fault, either backlash or depth is off hard to tell, as they tend to whine when they are set too deep, or if the backlash is too tight/too lose, if its heard while on both decel and accel its then a depth issue or a combo of the two, might not be off by much but a few thousands of an inch is enough to get any sort of noise. I doubt its bearing related since its pretty hard to mess the preload up, and you would see that in the oil. Being off a bit isn't the end of the world but tooth engagement should be spot on, specially when you are paying a premium for it, I my self would return it and get a quiet unit. One thing I've learn over the years is that if it makes noise from the start it will never be quiet and or might get louder with mileage, doesn't mean its about to blow on you, it just means it isn't meshing as good as it could.