Well my kit, I got from Tony.. 3-5.5 drop, full Spohn UCA and LCA bars rear,Panhard bar and my front and rear sway bars I got right from Eibach. I got the helpers bags for towing and run the SP BT in the rear.
Now I bought Tony's kit about a year ago and have about 1800 miles on it since then...( I know, its sad she sits)
Now I thing the shocks in the front that came with the kit are DJM's. I HATE THEM! Says nothing bad about Tony and he might of revised his kit since I bought it last year this time.
ALEX33 is the guy who has got the shock game figured out in my opinion. I think him and Mike did a lot of trial and error. From all of Alex33's research I would go with the Bilstein for the fronts. I am trying my hardest to find that thread where we were all talking about the front shocks for DJM arms.
I also made the mistake of cutting my jounce stops right out,but after reading WHITEOUT's comments on that last year, I have red energy suspension bumpstops in there now.
I run 24's and do a lot of towing to shows and trails. The only complaint I have ever made was about the front shocks, that originaly came with my kit....