Lots of variables here as mentioned. All the little differences can make huge impact on a Max effort climb like the Coq. Tahoe at least 300 lbs heavier according to Google.
Definitely the weight would have been a factor, but that's impossible to control unless I decide to bring both vehicles, go up and down the Coq with one, then hitch the trailer, move all our gear to the second vehicle, go up and down a second time. Sorry, I'm just not going that far with this to prove my casual observations!
Tahoe 6 years older vehicle, how was condition of the cooling system? Fresh coolant, newish pump, radiator not restricted from external debris or internal corrosion etc etc. Poor old Tahoe...
I wouldn't have gone up the Coq with such a bad cooling system. I have read about other's experiences where the temperature would rise a little towing up a hill like the Coq, so it does seem that the cooling system on the older Chevy's do get quite warm. However, you cannot rely on the gauge to know what the temperature is. The Scangauge is far superior to monitor the temperature. Poor old Tahoe.... don't forget these Tahoes live long healthy lives if taken care of.
Going up grapevine, our 6 speed Toyota SUV don't hunt as much for gears compared to our 2002 Yukon...that 3/4 hunt is annoying... usually have to keep it in 3rd manually so I don't wear the 2-4 band premature.
Happy New year!
Why don't you use the Tow/Haul mode on the Yukon? These new 6, 8, and 10 speed transmissions do a lot for drivability. I think Swathdiver is right, the 6 speed automatic and VVT are probably the big differences. One other difference that you might not know of unless you have one of these Fords, the newer cooling systems operate at 20 psi instead of 16. I've been curious if this increase of 4 psi is enough to allow more heat to be absorbed by the cooling system without a temperature rise.