Let me rephrase my plans. I have a 383 stroker TPI motor, that cannot use the old TBI ECM. So the new motor comes with its own ECM but it will not work the
4L60e transmission. I also beleive the 1996 ECM controls the ABS. (but not sure). So I need find out if can be done or not.
You need to get a “pin out” diagram of the OEM ECM. You also need a schematic of the ECM for the new 383.
Eliminate the connections not used with the stock ECM and share sensor signals for both ECM”s for things like TPS and MAP sensors or what ever the ECM’s use in common.
I would suggest solder connections rather than crimp on. Most of the circuits are 5 volt and connections must be solid.
Also be aware that signal grounds should be connected to be sure voltages are the same between ECM’s.
All the wires should be color coded and it all should be easy. Time consuming, but easy.
After its running you can go back into the OEM ECM and delete some things to keep the check engine light happy………