Well I finally got some rear Bell Tech SP shocks. It dropped the rear about 3/4" and the ride is a lot better, I am sitting at 32.25 in the front and 33.5 in the rear. I still think I am going to switch to spindles in the front with new shocks, however if I decide I want to go lower I am going to just go ahead and get the DJM A-arms and trailblazer springs. Still debating if I want to go lower.
I had taken my front bumpstops out to see how that ride was, well with only about 5/8" between the A-arm and bumpstop bracket it was bottoming out a lot on the bracket so I cut them in half and reinstalled. That has helped the front, but I believe lowering with either the spindles or a-arms and going back to stock keys will correct the issue I am having with the ride in the front.
Here is the before and after pics from the shock change: