Which one? My wife's car or Grumpy's?
Yours
What are your thoughts here?
Personally, I've never subscribed to the whole high mileage thing. Don't run it; don't plan to. I'm of the opinion that if a vehicle has a leak, or other issue for that matter it should be addressed directly and not cobbled around with any bottled fixes. That said I also have yet to experience any leak or changes in leaks with synthetics and run them in every piece of equipment I own from small engines to passenger vehicles. I feel it's also worth mentioning I do my own work where logistics allows, so my cost of repair for these things is lower than you'd typically see from a shop.
Here's a smattering of vehicles I either own myself or are in charge of maintaining - family members rigs. Worth noting in all cases, that on purchase - every fluid on the vehicle was changed. Coolant, engine oil, p/s, trans, brake fluid, diff fluid, etc. Coolant was either OE formulation or univeral stuff. Brake fluid is all DOT4, changed at 2 year intervals, lubrication fluids are all synthetics from name brands unless otherwise specified.
1999 vw passat, got it at 155k, sold off at 180k. Wet everywhere, no drips by some miracle of god. Sludged motor on account of conventional changes every 10k. Ran Rotella t6 the whole time I owned it and just changed the stuff when it got visually dirty. Managed to clean up the sludged but it still quite varnished everywhere.
2002 jeep wrangler. Bought it at 18k, though to be entirely frank I think that's a lie. How many miles it really has are anyone's guess. That one was also sludged up. Ran rotella, changed when it got visually dirty, then transitioned to whatever name brand 5w30 syn was on sale. Local shop switches between half off M1 or Valvoline. Rebuilt front differential directly after purchase. Pinion bearing and seal were shot. Few years into ownership (this is 2014 era now) the valve cover and rear main began to leak. Replaced both of those, no other leaks to this day.
2003 subaru forester - bought at 98k, sold at 124k. Unknown service history. I ran every which oil in that one ranging from 0w20 to 15w40, synthetic, conventional, high mileage, name brands, house brands. That car had some loud ass piston slap when cold, was playing around trying to determine what quiets it. This one got me playing around with lab tests and viscosities. I found that it was quietest on a Xw20 or 0w30, but 0w30 posted the best wear numbers overall compared to any of the other weights I ran.
2005 chevy tahoe - bought at 115k, has 140k on it at current. Regular service history every 5-7k, unknown what grade of oil was used previous. I've run a mix of redline, amsoil, mobil 1, and amsoil. Settled on M1 0w30 esp due to availability. No leaks, nothing wet underneath; it's dry as a bone. Only gasket related stuff was to change the transmission cooler lines at ~134k due to a wet spot developing. And the valley pan gasket as part of the knock sensors while I was doing the intake gaskets.
2008 toyota highlander, purchased new now has 115k - syn from day 1, no leaks to this day
2010 jeep wrangler, purchased new now has 50k. Was traded in last week for a newer model. syn from day 1, light valve cover gasket wetting near end of ownership.