I keep detailed records. I have a spreadsheet that tabulates date, miles, activity, cost, who did the work, etc. I also load all my data to my.carfax.com. Regarding the transmission, there is no fluid / filter service through 100K miles for normal conditions. Thus, they cannot complain to me, if the transmission were to die at 99K miles, that I did not do the required service.
For normal driving conditions per the owners manual, there is no service required on the transmission up through 150K miles. On the severe schedule, they recommend every 45K miles. This agrees with the specifications for Dexron VI of 50K miles for severe. I am going with the specifications for Dexron VI for normal at 100K miles in spite of what the owners manual says.