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@fozzi58 stated above it's no secret that larger diameter wheels are heavier than smaller diameter wheels; If you want large light weight wheels there are options, but it costs a lot of money. You're really talking about the differences between wheels that are forged aluminum versus cast aluminum.
You can search the differences between forged aluminum wheels versus cast wheels. Not only are forged wheels lighter in weight, but just like engine components forged metal is stronger than cast metal. They are usually about 3-5+ times the cost of cast wheels. Which is why forged wheels are not common on this vehicle platform.
GM OEM wheels are all cast aluminum
Any and all brand GM Replica wheels are cast aluminum
The typical brands of 20"-24" wheels you see on this forum such as DUB, Niche, Status, CODA, Giovanna, etc. are all cast aluminum wheels. Sure some of those brands offer forged wheels, but the selection is limited let alone have offerings in the GM 6 bolt pattern.
From my experience most GM OEM and GM replica wheels in the 22" x 9" size (cast aluminum) will weigh in the range of 45-49lbs. per rim depending on how much chrome it has and/or how much of the plastic chrome cladding is on the rim. This weight is rim only no tire.
For comparison sake; I have a set of Rennen M-6 Monoblock (Single Piece) Forged aluminum wheels that are 24" x 10" and each rim by themselves weighs 36lbs. by itself, no tire. Based on my experience that is about 10 lbs. lighter per rim compared to the average GM OEM 22" x 9" wheels and they're both larger in diameter and width.
There are some 22" x 9.5"-10" wide forged aluminum wheel options that are <30lbs. per rim, no tire. At that point you're talking almost 15-20 lbs. lighter than a stock 22" x 9" rim; And stronger since their forged versus cast.
To your point though there are a lot of owners who install larger diameter wheels and tires on their vehicle without considering the additional wear and tear the added weight will have on stock braking systems and stock suspension parts.