As I said, 3.56 gearing would bring my gearing to about stock level. 4.10s would have me at 1900rpm on the highway, and 4.56s would have me at 2100rpm doing 76. 2000-2500rpm is where my truck is the loudest in the cab, being straight piped without cats (offroad use only) 2100rpm on the highway all the time would be incredibly noisy, because the exhaust hits that right frequency to be loud af inside the cab between 2k-2500, no lower no higher.
Also, 4.56s would sink my fuel mileage to nothing, as I currently get 15.5 on the highway even with an iffy intake manifold gasket and brand new 37s aired to 50 instead of the reccomended "max load capacity" pressure being 80psi. 4.56s would have my mpg in single digits, and my truck accelerates decent enough on 3.08s. having the extra get up and go of 3.73s or 4.10s would be great, but I think 4.56s is a bit overkill as I'm not usually extreme offroading. 4.10s will have plenty of acceleration and offroad performance for what I use my truck for. The biggest thing I tow is either other cars that are broken down or stuck, with likely the occasional atv or utv trailer in the future.
And the biggest reason is that I'm pretty low on cash, and I have the opportunity for a great deal on my hands with a brand new set of 4.10s with a good high quality locker instead of the explosive g80, on an almost brand new axle with not a spec of rust. Very rare for facebook marketplace around me
And I have a rough country 7.5 with a decent amount of fender trimming (nothing too crazy) I only rub at full lock in reverse, but I can turn 85% without rubbing.