Ok update for all who have looked at this. Did some research, yes i had the nivomat shocks, my tahoe had the zw7 package. that explained alot about why the ride was so rough after the ranch hand and before i ever changed the suspension in any way. so due to having the zw7 package and changing the the shocks only and leaving old zw7 springs on it with the ranch hand it actually compressed the new bilstein about 3/4 all the time, in turn the rear end sagged a bit and rode terrible! luckily for me my local chevy parts guy is cool and helped me out, i decided to change my suspension parts to that of a 2006 ssv(special service tahoe) 4x4. we looked up the part number for the springs and i ordered the moog version, the shocks called for bilstein shocks. looking at the parts diagram the ssv tahoe is just a stripped down z71 tahoe with a 160 amp alternator and larger radiatior and with a transoil cooler. i have a 160 amp alt already so i figured what the hell why not.
now let me stress this, the ssv tahoe is just a stripped down z71 tahoe. the springs i got were the moog heavy duty springs, they were actaully almost 2 inches taller than the zw7's! they take the weight of the bumper great and the tahoe has never ridden better! thanks to jeff d for the helpful reply!