Torque management is the culprit. It's what makes it a dog off the line and at shift point.
So will a handheld fix this or do I need Black bear? Sorry, not trying to be hardheaded and I do appreciate the help, but I find it hard to believe that a handheld tuner will do nothing and that Blackbear is it for tuning even a little bit. Like I said in a different post, with my Titan, we had Uprev which was the equivalent to EFI Live I guess. But, it really wasn't absolutely necessary unless you had headers or wanted to add a cam etc. With minor bolt-ons like CAI and exhaust, all the big handheld tuner companies were fine and they had pretty impressive results.
If my main problem is with torque management, is that all based in the TCM? Is Black bear my only option for getting into that if that's the case?
Oh, and thanks 73 and B4 and everyone else for the replies.