Option 3 is a 5.3 liter vvt cam. Either go option one or 2. If you are going to be tuning it yourself with no prior knowledge, it will be easier with the smaller cam, but that doesn't mean it will suddenly be easy, just a little less work to get it to idle properly. If you want to error on the side of better towing, go with the stage 1. If you want capable towing with a little more upper end power, go the stage 2. With the 6 speeds it isn't a problem finding the correct range to be in If it is tuned correctly to not lug shift like they do stock. You should be shifting a 6 speed at 2 grand at light throttle for each gear for best economy, not lugging it down as fast as they can get it into 6th, like factory. You will never have a problem towing with the stage 2 if it's tuned properly. Just leave the converter unlocked until 5th, and have it shift at 2 grand through all gears, and it will pull like a champ. And of course watch your tranny Temps, and do an aux cooler installed before the factory cooler if it needs one. Being in Michigan you will want to run the tranny fluid through the stock rad location to warm it up in the winters.