So here's my attempt at it...
Mine haven't come on since buying the car and there have obviously been situations where they should have. The only icon I see is the little "side blinker" looking icon. Nothing with the "A." I don't turn on my fogs. I tried flashing my high-beams by pulling towards me 2x like i thought the manual says but nothing. Then, this morning, I "pushed" the stalk instead of "pulled." After doing it twice, the little headlights symbol with the "A" came on for half a second, and then disappeared again. I kept flashing my high beams by "pushing" and could tell when the Intellibeam was "on" vs "off", but the symbol with the "A" would only stay on for less than a second everytime.....