I think I'll have to reread that again to fully understand what you're saying. but my question is how are particle bigger than the filter rating getting thru the media? is it some kinda break thru or just the bypass valve? if so it seems a higher bypass valve pressure would be helpful?
on a side note, here's a wix filter without a bypass valve with ratings I don't fully understand listed on the side of it. might be interesting.
Filter media is a science unto itself. Only 100% efficiency first pass means no large particles go through and no ordinary filter can achieve that. The balance is a combination of filter capacity, flow and efficiency. If you are shooting for high capacity and low restriction you may likely choose a looser filter media. If you care about efficiency for an extreme load test (even racing doesn't produce that many particles in 30 minutes), then you use a tighter media. You are compromising a bit either direction.
Yes, some particles may go through the bypass valve. A higher bypass is only helpful if you are oversupplying the oil to compensate, but more often oil pressures are coming down to increase fuel efficiency. But realistically better media and higher capacity are a better choice than backpressure and a high bypass relief pressure.
For the filter specs, it is just showing you the performance characteristics. The top one is simply saying for a 10 gram filter load and 1/10 Liter per sec flow there is a specific back pressure.