I think that your problem comes from the fact that you didn't know what to do in the case of an emergency.
In the old days, a driver would have driven his / her vehicle to a safe place off the road before assessing the damage.
Then they would have gotten out of the vehicle and put out road flares or 3 reflective tri angles. In your case, you did neither. So, pointing fingers and calling people dumb asses - when even you didn't do it right, was kind of stupid.
When you get your vehicle fixed, go to a parts store and order 3 reflective triangles and use them the next time you get in an accident to warn the other drivers that there is an emergency ahead