I am no mechanic, but I have the same problem.
I pulled a plug and it was white. My trusty mechanic said that it is usually from oil seeping into the cylinder from loose valves or rings, or a cylinder that is a bit off on shape.
My guess would be oil.
The antifreeze issue may be a failing waterpump. Check the weephole. surroundings for any antifreeze deposits.
Also, next time you notice a puddle, dip a finger and smell it. It could be condensation from the ac condenser, could be oil, could be antifreeze. Open your coolant reservoir and take a whiff. Pull your oil dipstick and take a whiff. If its ac condensation it won't smell like anything.
Just my 2 cents worth of backyard motor knowledge.