do the shorty's they will have a resale value of something. not much market and bad to ship cast iron.
for bolts, don't use them.. use studs. I worked at a mustang performance shop forever ago, when the 03 corba was a hot new car. every one of them got full exhaust. headers and all, not one ever leaked, you know why? cause we threw away the bolts and gaskets that came in the box, reused the oem exhaust gaskets, MLS just like the stock ls are and reused the oem studs with flanged crimped lock nuts.
as long as the headers are decent metal and welds, with at least half inch thick flanges, they will probably out live us on the truck.
you know what size the ls header bolts happen to be? the same m8 1.25 the mustangs used back then. went I put zo6 exhaust on my ls3 car I grabbed 2 sets of Dorman Ford stud kits at the local parts store for 11$ each. they are 10.8 rated and super cheap, you'll pull the threads out of the head long before you break one. arp bolts are nice, but a loose bolt is still annoying no matter how strong the metal is.