quick update...
replaced the temp motor actuator and the vent motor actuator under dash, worked ok until i put the fan on high then the panel blew again. Ohmed out all circuits (friend did that and said no shorts found) replacing blower motor and resistor today. fan relay and underhood relay replaced, heater control valve and solenoid replaced
fingers crossed, im running out of will with this thing, 4 panels blown, cant find a short, replacing all the under-dash components, so far i am in for 4 panels, 2 door actuators, the temp valve and solenoid, 2 relays a blower motor and the resistor.
i am rapidly approaching the ultimate solution with this thing (a cliff) we shall soon see....