....I'm in the process of trying to get 'near' to that new car feel as well....my 09 has 202k and while its been quite trouble free, the wear and tear has taken a toll
...as such I'm rebuilding the entire front end....upper and low control arms, ball joints, tie rods, hubs, sway links,and anything connected to a bushing like sway bar bushing etc.....new shocks too... same will go for the rear end too (although much less to fuss with).....but I do have to get new rear axel bearings and seals- as they are leaking...
All told, the front end will cost around 400-450 in parts plus shocks, rear should be about 1/2 that....I'm just doing chucks or pieces per paycheck and doing the labor myself.
Motor/drivetrain....just did diablosport tune (which gave it some crispness), replaced all rotors, pads, bleed lines, replaced all belts, pulleys, tensioners too....next up will be all fluids diffsx2, trans, transfer case, motor oil and some fresh wires and plugs....
I should be about a month out from completing the above I figure....the only other outliers are a new windshield and I'd love to rebuild (or replace) the drivers seat..