If you drive it conservatively, it will last longer (all other things equal) but make no mistake about it - flare shifts are not normal for any automatic transmission. They indicate a problem. Unfortunately, that problem can be sourced in any number of places, either in the electronic command and control, mechanical command and control (valve body), worn pump, leaking stator-pump cover gasket or as a consequence of worn applied elements/excessive clearance. WOT shifting and heavy duty use (Hauling/towing heavier loads) will exacerbate the problem so if you're only observing it during those times, simply minimize the transmission's exposure accordingly.
IMO, attempting to troubleshoot with the intent to fix the problem by throwing parts can be very time consuming and costly without producing the desired results thus IMO is not the best approach...Drive it until it fully craps out then overhaul it completely and properly.
@Geotrash - your flares could be sourced in the pump stator sealing ring-3-5-R drum area. Those pre 2009 units had the first design stator where cross-leaks and blow-by of apply fluid to the 3-5-R apply piston was common. GM corrected this issue in 2009+ model year vehicles by redesigning the stator to take rubber support o-rings underneath the primary sealing rings. This design exerts greater outward pressure of the sealing rings against the inner diameter of the 3-5-R drum, resulting in much better sealing integrity between the 1-2-3-4 clutch and 3-5-R clutch.
Relevant information:
> Slippage and/or flare shifts in 3rd, 5th; slip in reverse
> Slippage in 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th
> Clunk During Engagement into Drive
IMO, attempting to troubleshoot with the intent to fix the problem by throwing parts can be very time consuming and costly without producing the desired results thus IMO is not the best approach...Drive it until it fully craps out then overhaul it completely and properly.
@Geotrash - your flares could be sourced in the pump stator sealing ring-3-5-R drum area. Those pre 2009 units had the first design stator where cross-leaks and blow-by of apply fluid to the 3-5-R apply piston was common. GM corrected this issue in 2009+ model year vehicles by redesigning the stator to take rubber support o-rings underneath the primary sealing rings. This design exerts greater outward pressure of the sealing rings against the inner diameter of the 3-5-R drum, resulting in much better sealing integrity between the 1-2-3-4 clutch and 3-5-R clutch.
Relevant information:
> Slippage and/or flare shifts in 3rd, 5th; slip in reverse
> Slippage in 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th
> Clunk During Engagement into Drive