I agree with you on re: AMZ "oem" parts, I quit ordering those from them several years ago. Your fuel pressure sounds low to me, I do not recall actual spec (maybe 58psi?), with a bit of difference between gas and flex. Check the fuel pressure regulator on the rail? That bleeding off pressure could also affect your hard starts.At the time I bought it off Amazon, but I stopped buying OEM parts from Amazon. I’m confident it’s not the fuel pump because this issue was occurring before I replaced it. The fuel pressure specs are as follows before I replaced the fuel pump.
46 psi when key was on but engine off.
42 psi with engine running
42 psi after engine was ofF