Call me old and senile if you must, but i learned the hard way, leave a vehicle alone.
JMHO
I learnt the hard way too. I'm only 23 and I'm starting to see where folks who think like you are coming from lol. This is definitely the last daily driver i modify this much.
I told myself i wasn't going to do any big mods on this Tahoe. That lasted about 3 years until i couldn't ignore the itch any more. First i lowered the Tahoe with a 2/3 drop. Didn't like the ride so i lifted it to 5" on 33's. As much as i wish i would have done a cognito 7" with fox coilovers, the 5" RC with vertex coilovers and custom coils (needed to lower them from 7" to 5") and it rides really nice. Also replaced the crappy RC 7.5" rear lift coils with BDS 3.5" top bolt in spacers, factory rear coils, and a bottom 1" spacer so the truck sits level with 5" lift in the front.
Luckily i had some buddies come over and help out with the lift. Having the right tools & power tools is a massive game changer. Let the tools do all the work. It's still not easy but as an engineer i really enjoy finding and fixing problems and making something objectively better for less $.