They tune via internet, you'll just have to source an AutoCal. You use the AutoCal to collect data, email it to them, they tweak it, email it back to you, you upload it, etc. I've never worked with the Diablo, but I think you can get a custom "Diablew" tune via internet with that as well.
@kbuskill can give you details.
Factory cats are already "high flow". Aftermarket ones are the same, just smaller in size and sometimes insufficient. For your budget, a tune would be the biggest bang-for-the-buck. If you want some sound, just replace the factory muffler with a ~$50-$100 aftermarket one. No need to replace the pipes, etc. An Airaid MIT would be a nice addition as well. Do those things before you get the tune.