So I disconnected both harnesses from the ECU. I disconnected the battery first of course and touched both ends together fora few minutes with the key in the on position for good measure. I cleaned with electronic spray, dried them to evaporating with my new TEMU hand air blower

and reconnected them both. All looked super clean. i have since started it up about 7 or 8 times and so far so good. Yesterday it would happen at every turn. Today nothing so far after the cleaning mentioned here. Not sure if ECU had corrosion that cant be seen with the naked eye or there is a broken wire in that mass that just got jostled straight as I was cleaning.