I just smirked and let the mind games do their thing as I gave my own little passive aggressive jabs
Over the years, my brother has been king of the "let me tell you what you need to do, little brother...." regardless if I'd asked for his advice at all and my sister-in-law is pretty much JUST like him as far as personality traits along those lines. So it was kind of like a sweet taste of victory as they finally circled back around realizing that I've been right all these years as they attempted to force the blessed minivan to be successful with 4 kids. One of those things where their way is always the best way and if someone goes a different route they feel the need to tell you why you're an idiot for doing that. Well, "who looks like the idiot now" is kind of what I thought