@swathdiver what they sometimes do is change the valve seats, but not the valve stem seals. And the ones they used were too short, which caused the disintegration of the valve stem seal housing, so to speak, from the seal itself.
@rockola1971 how should over tighten rocker arms, wear the valve stem tip cover? The rocker arm assembly sits on the cylinder head. If you use too much torque, then you may damage the threads, but you will not get movement or too much pressure on the valve stem tip. The pressure on the valve stem tip comes from the spring and the camshaft. And there is a supplement from GM that the rocker arms of the aluminum heads should not overtighten 24nm which can cause the threads to fail.
But thank you both for trying to think about that with me. That makes a forum good, to exchange with people with the same afficination.
For me at the moment, I can only see two reasons for that wear. Too much friction, because of a lack of lubrication, or less quality of the valves.
Too much friction I would denie, because oil pressure was all the time good. I used good quality oil and changed it regularly. As well. Why only the intake valves are affected? I mean, if the intake and exhaust valves have the same quality, the exhaust valves must wear more, because of the higher temperature.
So I think, when they did the cylinder head, and the former owner told me, that they did the valve seats, they probably used cheap intake valves, which are not hardened enough.
Fact is: I cannot drive that engine anymore, until I do the cylinder heads, because if this small rest of the tip breakes, the valve spring releases and the valve falls into the combustion chamber….
Then the engine is for sure ready for the junk yard.