THIS right here. I had to borrow my FIL trailer and truck to haul some wood and dirt for my yard, and the lights wouldn't work on the trailer. his 19 silverado can tell when it is hooked up. We spent about 30 minutes trying to get it to work, and since it was daytime i drove it home and by the time i got home, they were working. I spent 50 bucks to install new lights and wiring on the trailer as i couldn't figure out what the issue was until I went to change out the grounding wire. It is attached under the plate for the tongue jack. when i removed the bolts for the jack to replace the wire, it was all rusty and the bolts were snug, but not tight. so i removed the jack and cleaned up the frame to a nice metal surface and hooked up the new ground wire and, voila, it worked as soon as i plugged it in the truck knew it was there. also hooked it up to my canyon and acadia and on both, the lights came up instantly. I would double check your grounding wire to make sure it has a good connection to the trailer, and any other places the wiring may be grounded to trailer. If the grounding is funky, your wiring loop isnt closed so the vehicle won't sense it is there.