The filter medium from the cannister cannot get into the fuel tank when the cannister fails & the fuel pump has nothing to do with the EVAP system so I wouldn't start changing those parts
The tank vents to the fuel nozzle when filling with fuel, not through the EVAP system, there is a path to the fuel nozzle boot from the tank so air displaced by incoming fuel can escape; if that path is restricted the displaced air can only escape up the fill pipe & cause your symptom
That path is either a small external hose from the tank to the filler neck or a seperate vent contained inside the fill pipe. In either case it vents above where the fuel nozzle releases the fuel into the fill pipe
That's where I would be looking, good luck!