Everything is bolted back up
I ended up making some .020 washers from some sheet metal.
Got them very consistent and even weight balanced them using a food scale.
Then i decided to re-check the converter clearance, noticed the converter didn't want to slide all the way to the flywheel easily.
From my reading, that seemed normal the first time around.
This time, me wondering if it's bottoming out in the crank snout.
I took a closer look.
Using a screwdriver to support the converter, i was able to slap the flywheel with the converter but it still wanted to pull back like .015
I had greased the crank when installing, but i don't recall if i spent the time to spread it around.
I also didn't spread the grease on the end of the converter.
but instructions i found didn't specify I needed to do that.
So i got the bright idea, pushed the converter all the way into the pump.
then used an air blow gun, packed some redline engine assembly lube into the tip.
then stuck that nozzle up between the converter and the flywheel, as close to the converter to crank mating as possible.
And let it rip!
I did that a few more times while rotating the converter around and working the converter back and forth
Finally, i got it real slick!
I could move the converter into the flywheel with ease, and it fully seated against the flywheel without holding it.
If i could go back, I would have done a slight polish to the end of the crank snout, and maybe the end of the converter snout to make everything as smooth as possible.
I also pulled my balancer out, from the underside view.
it was pretty clear how badly i had it off.
Reading around online i didn't find any reference to the issue.
all seemed to say to bottom the balancer into the timing/oil pump drive sprocket.
So originally that's exactly what i did.
with the new engine, i did my best to line up the pully with the ac compressor.
but it still ended up too far in after fully torqueing the balancer bolt.
I also found a vague mention of some "Friction washer" that should go between the balancer and the sprocket, but that was on a C6 vette thread.
I couldn't find any other reference of any such "Washer", and i didn't read the thread too carefully.
As of right now, the balancer is sticking out just a tad from the ps pump pully.
My plan is to see how alignment looks once i have the belt on, and then adjust it from there.
Assuming this was in any way related to my issue, it would pull the crank away from the thrust surface, and into the other surface slightly...