He is starting to learn his parents haven’t been all that truthful as he grew up, and still are deceitful. They told him he can afford a new car and required full coverage insurance like them, eat out at restaurants all the time like them, save up for and buy a house, travel a half-dozen times a year, etc, all on his 30k a year. They tell him they don’t make much more than that ( they both have low paying jobs) but they fail to mention they’re fostering 3-4 kids that have difficulties and all I can figure is they make a LOT of money doing that because they live WAY beyond their means. Mexico twice a year for a week each time, Cali twice a year, Florida, they have a new GMC Denali pickup, new Tahoe, nice house, etc etc and act like he doesn’t know how to make his money go far enough. Poor kid doesn’t have a clue what things cost but he’s starting to figure it out. I’m not helping by letting him live here for free but he makes my daughter happy and is a good guy. They are saving to buy a house but my daughter will be on the mortgage and will be the breadwinner as she is getting her nurses degree in a couple months.
Hope it all works out.