Reading through the service manual and after talking to the mechanic who found that the relay switch worked, I think I'm coming to a better understanding...maybe?
He said the P1351 was a result of the long cranking that would take place (which jibes with what I saw). Reading the service manual, I see this: "An inoperative fuel pump relay can result in long cranking times. The time necessary for the oil pressure to reach the pressure required in order to close the oil pressure switch and supply the necessary current for the fuel pump causes the extended crank period."
That 5th pin just goes out to a capped wire, as east302 showed me
here. I have to believe the issue is in the fuse/relay block but I'm having a hard time resolving exactly how this works and doesn't work. That 5th pin, pin 87a, is the one that connects through to the fuel pump when the relay is *not* being energized, ie the fuel pump prime connector. As I type this, I'm thinking that the issue is really next to the middle pin, pin 87a. Because when you turn it over, the relay flips to pin 87, which is the battery feed, and sends it on to the fuel pump. The thing is, at that point, pin 87a isn't engaged.
But if the blade in the relay being inserted actually causes pin 87 to ground out or even causes pin 85 (the signal to energize the relay) to do the same, that would make the relay not work right. That either stop the relay from opening at all, or it would just ground the power out before it gets to the pump.
Does that make sense? And, more importantly, how in the world would you even address that?? Wouldn't you have to pull that whole block off, wires and all??