Probably Overland Park Kansas area or St. Louis Missouri. I actually got one on there since this picture taken, all to find out the motor wont work...
I used to run a light truck/auto repair shop in Lenexa, right next door to Overland Park, Ks. in Johnson County. I lived in Gladstone, Mo. and drove there to work across the state line. That was the last place I worked before moving here 25+ years ago. I would not live in St. Louis if someone paid me. But you will make the right decision. One thing you will love about living in either place is the proximity to BBQ houses. Lots to choose from. Plus, IMO, the taxes are huge in both your areas but less across the line in either Gladstone or Parkville or wherever, north of the river in Mo.