We will be fine, as long as you take responsibility for the things you say. And please, don't try and twist it to fit. That crap doesn't help.
How about starting by removing the dealer sucks comment from your helpful answer catalog.
Answer the guys question without insulting the innocent party he has chosen to do business with.. And drop the "I'm a victim angle as well. Own your words and I have absolutely no problem with you. If you feel insulted, you only have yourself to blame.