Technically, our Tahoe is my wife's. I drive the lifted Jeep. It was all part of the kid preparation plan. I wanted her and my kids (when they come) in something safe, reliable, and good for winter in Denver. Yes she has some quarks that get to me when she drives, but 98% of the time, if we're going somewhere together, i'm driving the hoe. On the other hand, she drives it every day to work in Denver traffic. I do everything i can to make sure it is what she expects it to be and has everything it needs to be safe when she needs it to be. O, and i also get to do all the maintenance and care for it too
So to the original post: if there's an option, i will drive. But i dont have a problem giving her the keys. She's a good driver (gotta love the midwest country roads for learning)