Woman took my car... civil issue... trying to get it back

[fixmycar]

One of my Soldiers, now friend went through a similar situation. The mother/his Ex was a straight POS. The boys were developmently behind 2 years because of her neglect. 3 years and $40k later he was finally award 100% legal and total custody of them.

Hopefully, you will not have to spend that much. Sounds like she has buried herself in every possible way.......and the courts will see that with all of the evidence you and your lawyer have. Its just a waiting game right now with the virus shit.

I work in the cyber security world/domain.......its very hard to go off the grid now. IE facial recognition, bank records, internet/cellphone usage and best is the IRS with tax filings. A crafty well versed lawyer knows how to file the right paperwork.

Best of luck and hold the course man

I watch biographies, true life stories etc and I used to think, why does it take so long for some of these people to get charged, arrested, held accountable etc, and now I realize it's because the system is literally this slow. I was talking to someone who investigates child neglect and she said, this woman could literally shoot you and it's not guaranteed she would lose custody of her kids. There are some broke processes in this world and I'm starting to see it. She's been well versed in this area because she's done this to her ex, but she has a major problem staying on course and she always needs to be in control, to be right and tell "her" version of the story, so it's just a matter of time before she messes up again. If I had to count the number of DVI violations, I would say it's about 15 right now. It is a bit confusing they rolled in custody/timeshare into the modified DVI, but each time I don't see my daughter, that's another violation/contempt. She'll be at least to 20 if she stops doing everything else right now before I get my day in court. My lawyer is pretty good, but he's also not cheap... $350 an hr... Hell, I thought $200 was expensive. He's worth it though. We haven't even got started and I'm almost $10k in... I assume it will be at least $20k 6-12 months from now and the way she is, that number will only go up $2-4k a yr.

 

[Tonyrodz]

I watch biographies, true life stories etc and I used to think, why does it take so long for some of these people to get charged, arrested, held accountable etc, and now I realize it's because the system is literally this slow. I was talking to someone who investigates child neglect and she said, this woman could literally shoot you and it's not guaranteed she would lose custody of her kids. There are some broke processes in this world and I'm starting to see it. She's been well versed in this area because she's done this to her ex, but she has a major problem staying on course and she always needs to be in control, to be right and tell "her" version of the story, so it's just a matter of time before she messes up again. If I had to count the number of DVI violations, I would say it's about 15 right now. It is a bit confusing they rolled in custody/timeshare into the modified DVI, but each time I don't see my daughter, that's another violation/contempt. She'll be at least to 20 if she stops doing everything else right now before I get my day in court. My lawyer is pretty good, but he's also not cheap... $350 an hr... Hell, I thought $200 was expensive. He's worth it though. We haven't even got started and I'm almost $10k in... I assume it will be at least $20k 6-12 months from now and the way she is, that number will only go up $2-4k a yr.

Hopefully the end result will be worth it. Money is no object when it comes to the safety and well being of your child. I think all of us have been where you're at to some degree. I know I've been. Sad thing is alot of courts automatically side with the woman--just because she's a woman, so it seems they have more rights then the man does.

 

[yates ™]

One of my Soldiers, now friend went through a similar situation. The mother/his Ex was a straight POS.

When I read this quick the first time I thought you said His mother/his Ex.

 

[WTSHARK]

"Fortunately I keep my popcorn and beer snacks numbered for just such an occasion"!

Points for who knows who said a form of this quote. No hints.

That would be (personal hero, lol) Foghorn Leghorn... "Fortunately, I say Fortunately, I keep my feathers numbered for just such an emergency", said in the thick southern accent he had. "That boy is tetched, in the head".

 

[1BADI5]

I watch biographies, true life stories etc and I used to think, why does it take so long for some of these people to get charged, arrested, held accountable etc, and now I realize it's because the system is literally this slow. I was talking to someone who investigates child neglect and she said, this woman could literally shoot you and it's not guaranteed she would lose custody of her kids. There are some broke processes in this world and I'm starting to see it. She's been well versed in this area because she's done this to her ex, but she has a major problem staying on course and she always needs to be in control, to be right and tell "her" version of the story, so it's just a matter of time before she messes up again. If I had to count the number of DVI violations, I would say it's about 15 right now. It is a bit confusing they rolled in custody/timeshare into the modified DVI, but each time I don't see my daughter, that's another violation/contempt. She'll be at least to 20 if she stops doing everything else right now before I get my day in court. My lawyer is pretty good, but he's also not cheap... $350 an hr... Hell, I thought $200 was expensive. He's worth it though. We haven't even got started and I'm almost $10k in... I assume it will be at least $20k 6-12 months from now and the way she is, that number will only go up $2-4k a yr.

If she is found guilty or charged with neglect, you might be able to sue for legal fees. Yeah we know she won't have the money for the settlement.....but they can dock her pay the same way they will for child support once you're awarded custody.

Revenge or justice is just best served cold sometimes.

I won't even get started on my experience with the legal system. A self defense shooting cost me almost $75k with legal, travel expenses and lost wages. Its ****** ridiculous, especially as a productive member of society with a clean record and 20+ years of active federal service. Sometimes is almost appears the system protects the dirtbags rights more then those of use that do the right thing everyday and all the time.

 

[Rocket Man]

When I read this quick the first time I thought you said His mother/his Ex.

Lol.

 

[yates ™]

Lol.

I was thinking this has more twists and turns than any story I have ever read. I then reread it and it was just normal.

 

[OR VietVet]

There's a TV movie in here somewhere. The crazy woman should be played by the crazy woman Alyssa Milano.

 

[1BADI5]

There's a TV movie in here somewhere. The crazy woman should be played by the crazy woman Alyssa Milano.

Yep, shes batshit crazy

 

[fixmycar]

Yeah you guys only know about 10% of the story. If I had to tell everything, I could probably make a 5 day mini-series movie.