Oiled filters have a bad rep because of people who do not prep them correctly.
I have used them for years with zero issues. I also know quite a few people who use them who have had no issues.
Its the jacklegs who get them, oil the sh*t out of them install them and go.
I wouldn't consider one better than the other. Its all what you prefer.
You know this and I know this. Reality is that the only people who have not had at least an initial issue with oiled filters, are the people who have had someone show them the proper way to oil and prep the filter or the people who under oil the filter. Everyone else had to deal with the learning curve. It must have taken 5 or 6 tries with that first K&N filter before the person teaching me would let me install it and run it. I think we only stopped there because we ran out of beer. Never had an issue on a personal vehicle, but have helped several friends clean up from over oiling the filter.
I recommend the dry filter because on the internet, threads start with something like "Got a K&N today!!!" and end up like "why does my MAF keep failing and my truck run like crap."
The dry filter helps minimize an opportunity for user error. At least in that sense, it is better than an oiled filter.