@Favored - I personally think you are making a good decision; in the long run hopefully you will look back and think so too. Bravo
I have spent more $ than I would have liked trying to get something to "work" instead of just doing it correct the first time. That's one major reason I ask people what their overall plans/goals for the ride changes are. Over time, better to spend more money and less of your time up front than too much of both down the road "fixing" things or "adjusting" others to make the overall setup work.
Also, I think that our SUVs are more than capable for what you are talking about doing, but they are no rock crawlers. However, they will certainly handle themselves with improved off-road suspension components and larger tires. 33-34" rubber will get you an extra 1" of ground clearance alone. Going too big will eat at the power and your transmission. I have not read of many on the TYForum that have done so, but regearing to 3.73 would probably be the best thing for an off road rig. That opens a whole new can of worms though. Probably best to just work with what you have...
Now that I know you're from CO Springs, I'm definitely vested in helping you get the ride you're looking for. I'm born and bred 5280, bleed orange and blue, just happen to live in Maine the past 9 years..
Since you're looking at Fox, I would suggest researching the remote reservoir coilovers w/ dampening control, as well as the 2.0 IFPs. I have not run a RR, but sounds like many people really like them. I have had BDS techs tell me straight up that the RR are probably overkill. But, if you're running bumpy gravel roads often and for extended periods of time, then the RRs might be well worth the extra $.
If you're raising the front ride height anything more than 1.5", I would suggest looking at a new pair of UCAs suitable for a 1-3" front level. Cognito sells a nice all around kit. Depending on the wheels you run, the aftermarket UCAs could have some rub involved. More research...
Keep us posted how things are progressing and call out for any questions/help! Welcome to the TYForum
Safe Travels